TKI.

The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI) is a framework used to assess and understand how individuals handle conflict in various situations. It identifies five main conflict-handling styles based on two dimensions: assertiveness (the extent to which a person tries to satisfy their own concerns) and cooperativeness (the extent to which a person tries to satisfy the concerns of others).

Here’s a breakdown of the five conflict-handling styles:

1. Competing (High Assertiveness, Low Cooperativeness)

• Characteristics: Pursuing one’s own interests at the expense of others.
• When to Use: In situations requiring a quick, decisive action, or when a person knows they are right and need to stand firm.
• Drawback: Can lead to strained relationships or unresolved issues if used excessively.

2. Collaborating (High Assertiveness, High Cooperativeness)

• Characteristics: Working together with others to find a solution that fully satisfies both parties.
• When to Use: When the goal is to find a win-win solution, especially in complex problems where different perspectives are important.
• Drawback: Can be time-consuming and may not be practical for simple issues.

3. Compromising (Moderate Assertiveness, Moderate Cooperativeness)

• Characteristics: Finding a middle ground where both parties give up something to resolve the conflict.
• When to Use: When quick resolution is needed, or when the issue is of moderate importance to both sides.
• Drawback: The solution may not fully satisfy either party and might not address the underlying problem.

4. Avoiding (Low Assertiveness, Low Cooperativeness)

• Characteristics: Ignoring or withdrawing from the conflict situation.
• When to Use: When the issue is trivial or when more important issues need to be addressed first.
• Drawback: Avoidance can allow problems to fester and grow larger over time.

5. Accommodating (Low Assertiveness, High Cooperativeness)

• Characteristics: Putting others’ needs before one’s own.
• When to Use: When preserving relationships is more important than winning the argument, or when the issue is not significant to you.
• Drawback: Overuse can lead to resentment or being taken advantage of.

How to Use TKI:

The TKI can help individuals understand their default conflict-handling style and adjust it depending on the situation. It’s useful in workplaces, negotiations, team dynamics, and leadership development. In some cases, combining or shifting between styles is the best approach.